IF YOU'RE A MAN STRUGGLINGIN YOUR RELATIONSHIP

You’re likely experiencing…

Resentment / Feeling Trapped
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Ongoing Conflict
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Lack of Safety / Trust
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Roommate Syndrome
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Lack of Sex / Affection

Join 100’s of men who have transformed their relationships…

TAKE THE SHORTCUTFROM SURVIVING TO THRIVING IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP

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Experience more freedom

Stop walking on eggshells and around land mines

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Feel wanted and desired

Physically, mentally and emotionally

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Be respected, seen and appreciated

Stop being criticized and controlled

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Bring back new relationship energy

Feel enlivened in your relationship again

We’ve been helping men transform their relationships for over a decade…

THIS IS OURBATTLE-TESTED6-MONTH COACHING PROGRAM TO HELP YOU TURN THINGS AROUND

Introducing…

You will unlock the relationship skills you've always needed.

Learn the 9 most essential skills that empower you to make your relationship better.

You get 6-months of powerful coaching.

Take the short-cut to relationship success and accelerate your progress with support from professional relationship coaches.

You will be surrounded by other men elevating their relationships, too.

Stay on track and prevent old harmful patterns resurfacing and learn from the successes (and mistakes) of other men.

HERE ARE THE9 ESSENTIAL RELATIONSHIP SKILLSYOU WILL LEARN

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STAND IN YOUR POWER

Learn (and commit) to proven empowering practices that will help you create the outcome you long for: a thriving life & relationship.

ELEVATE YOUR THOUGHTS

Break the negative and persistent thought patterns that are daily sabotaging you and preventing your relationship from succeeding.

EMBRACE INTIMACY

Connect with what you authentically feel, need, desire, and learn how to express that skillfully to your partner in ways that help you feel empowered and her feeling loved.

UNLOCK HER HEART

Get the keys to her heart through simple, specific practices that will help her viscerally feel your attention, your curiosity, your love for her.

CREATE SAFETY & TRUST

Eliminate power struggles, create a safe container for the relationship, and set healthy boundaries that foster clarity, trust, and true generosity.

END UNNECESSARY CONFLICT

Disagreements are inevitable. As you learn how to effectively navigate and repair conflict quickly (within minutes), now your differences, rather than just tear you apart, can actually strengthen your relationship and create a deeper bond between you.

OPEN YOUR HEART

She wants you to let her in. When you learn how to open your heart in ways that don’t leave you feeling weak, needy, or less of a man, now you can deepen trust with her, create connection and attraction.

IGNITE EROTIC TENSION

Harness the primal masculine and feminine differences between you and your partner to create the passionate intimacy and connection you both crave.

CULTIVATE UNBREAKABLE CONNECTION

Learn to create that kind of unbreakable connection that will help get you through anything together – anything – through the application of simple daily rituals designed to help you get on (and stay on) the same page – emotionally, mentally, physically, and spiritually.

This program is designed to be practical, actionable, and transformative.
By mastering these skills, you’ll learn how to create a thriving relationship.

Hear From Menwho turned their relationships around with THIS PROGRAM

Allan H.
“I just wanted to share how much the "Elevate Your Relationship" has positively impacted my life. My family and I recently enjoyed our first vacation together, and it was...
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Allan H.
“I just wanted to share how much the "Elevate Your Relationship" has positively impacted my life. My family and I recently enjoyed our first vacation together, and it was an absolute blast. The changes and improvements I've experienced through the program have truly made a difference in our lives. Things have been going so well, I owe a huge amount of gratitude to you, Tait, the program, and the men in the group.”
Allan H.
Allan H.
Anonymous
"This work that we do here is amazing and it does work. Our communication is not skillful but we communicate and that helps to clear our mind and move towards what we ...
Read More
Anonymous
"This work that we do here is amazing and it does work. Our communication is not skillful but we communicate and that helps to clear our mind and move towards what we both desire one step at a time."
Anonymous
Anonymous
Ben
“The language you suggested really worked. Simple, not easy. Thank you! ”
Ben
“The language you suggested really worked. Simple, not easy. Thank you!”
Ben
Ben
Chris
"That was an awesome session. I got so much out of it and see that a lot of our stories are the same and I don’t feel alone."
Chris
"That was an awesome session. I got so much out of it and see that a lot of our stories are the same and I don’t feel alone."
Chris
Chris
Clint R
"Thank you for this program. It has been immensely useful to me and I feel that because of it I have grown and developed in ways that would have either...
Read More
Clint R
"Thank you for this program. It has been immensely useful to me and I feel that because of it I have grown and developed in ways that would have either never happened or taken me decades to achieve. The journey you and Tait have undertaken and the desire to share that with others so that we, as men, may become fully realized has shaped the future of my life. I don’t know that I could ever thank you both enough."
Clint R
Clint R
Donny W
"The program has been magnificently replenishing, reawakening to an education that should be [taught in society] but isn’t. These concepts, themes, practices, reminders, suggestions and...
Read More
Donny W.
"The program has been magnificently replenishing, reawakening to an education that should be [taught in society] but isn’t. These concepts, themes, practices, reminders, suggestions and support structure have been healing, exciting, and immediately practical to transform our injured parts. Very beneficial. For me, my partner, my family, friends etc. It’s been very much needed maintenance and structured to work with my life patterns and it’s stress freeing in all the ways, especially the deep forgotten crevices of my soul and psyche. Didn’t realize how much chaos was happening down there. Proud to have been on this journey."
Donny W
Donny W.
Jeremy
“Module 2 is some of the best material I’ve ever listened to ….I have done the exercise a few times now while listening to it. I always start my day...
Read More
Jeremy
“Module 2 is some of the best material I’ve ever listened to….I have done the exercise a few times now while listening to it. I always start my day kind of ho-hum but after the module I am overjoyed just to be alive- the trees look more majestic, the fallen leaves are a testament to the cycle of life and death, everything is just so exciting. I am not a piece of shit, I am worthy, I can find and accomplish my purpose, I can find a beautiful and intelligent woman who wants to grow and experience the adventure that is this life with me. I’m so thankful I went all in on this course! Thank you Bryan and Tait, you’re doing a great thing here.”
Jeremy
Jeremy
Lee H.
“All this hard work with relating is paying off. We spent the whole trip in our love bubble and the bubble still hasn’t popped! Seems like this “leaning in ”...
Read More
Lee H.
“All this hard work with relating is paying off. We spent the whole trip in our love bubble and the bubble still hasn’t popped! Seems like this “leaning in” thing has finally caught on. I’m finding it easier to speak and act from my truth and not my ego. I’m looking forward to the next session with you men. It’s been great reading through the forum. Glad to see some wins while we learn to walk the path!”
Lee H.
Lee H.
Mark H.
"Had a great call with my partner. You are a genius! Thank you again."
Mark H.
"Had a great call with my partner. You are a genius! Thank you again."
Mark H.
Mark H.
Tecumseh
"I just completed Module 2 and I just have to say wow. I did the 10 questions and it tripped me out how you can turn things around by doing...
Read More
Tecumseh
"I just completed Module 2 and I just have to say wow. I did the 10 questions and it tripped me out how you can turn things around by doing that. I was able to figure out some things about myself that I didn’t realize before. A major relief finally knowing what is holding me back … and it’s me. I am now excited about what the future holds in my relations with everyone and showing my real self. As for the practices, I told my fiancé what I had figured out and I thanked her for her patience and sticking with me the past 5 years but now you are going to see the real me and the walls that I’ve kept up are going to start coming down. She is very happy that I shared that with her and feels that our relationship is going to grow better now instead of feeling stagnant. I can’t wait to see what happens next. Thank you!"
Tecumseh
Tecumseh
Allan H.
“I just wanted to share how much the "Elevate Your Relationship" has positively impacted my life. My family and I recently enjoyed our first vacation together, and it was...
Read More
Allan H.
“I just wanted to share how much the "Elevate Your Relationship" has positively impacted my life. My family and I recently enjoyed our first vacation together, and it was an absolute blast. The changes and improvements I've experienced through the program have truly made a difference in our lives. Things have been going so well, I owe a huge amount of gratitude to you, Tait, the program, and the men in the group.”
Allan H.
Allan H.
Anonymous
"This work that we do here is amazing and it does work. Our communication is not skillful but we communicate and that helps to clear our mind and move towards what we ...
Read More
Anonymous
"This work that we do here is amazing and it does work. Our communication is not skillful but we communicate and that helps to clear our mind and move towards what we both desire one step at a time."
Anonymous
Anonymous
Ben
“The language you suggested really worked. Simple, not easy. Thank you! ”
Ben
“The language you suggested really worked. Simple, not easy. Thank you!”
Ben
Ben
Chris
"That was an awesome session. I got so much out of it and see that a lot of our stories are the same and I don’t feel alone."
Chris
"That was an awesome session. I got so much out of it and see that a lot of our stories are the same and I don’t feel alone."
Chris
Chris
Clint R
"Thank you for this program. It has been immensely useful to me and I feel that because of it I have grown and developed in ways that would have either...
Read More
Clint R
"Thank you for this program. It has been immensely useful to me and I feel that because of it I have grown and developed in ways that would have either never happened or taken me decades to achieve. The journey you and Tait have undertaken and the desire to share that with others so that we, as men, may become fully realized has shaped the future of my life. I don’t know that I could ever thank you both enough."
Clint R
Clint R
Donny W
"The program has been magnificently replenishing, reawakening to an education that should be [taught in society] but isn’t. These concepts, themes, practices, reminders, suggestions and...
Read More
Donny W.
"The program has been magnificently replenishing, reawakening to an education that should be [taught in society] but isn’t. These concepts, themes, practices, reminders, suggestions and support structure have been healing, exciting, and immediately practical to transform our injured parts. Very beneficial. For me, my partner, my family, friends etc. It’s been very much needed maintenance and structured to work with my life patterns and it’s stress freeing in all the ways, especially the deep forgotten crevices of my soul and psyche. Didn’t realize how much chaos was happening down there. Proud to have been on this journey."
Donny W
Donny W.
Jeremy
“Module 2 is some of the best material I’ve ever listened to ….I have done the exercise a few times now while listening to it. I always start my day...
Read More
Jeremy
“Module 2 is some of the best material I’ve ever listened to….I have done the exercise a few times now while listening to it. I always start my day kind of ho-hum but after the module I am overjoyed just to be alive- the trees look more majestic, the fallen leaves are a testament to the cycle of life and death, everything is just so exciting. I am not a piece of shit, I am worthy, I can find and accomplish my purpose, I can find a beautiful and intelligent woman who wants to grow and experience the adventure that is this life with me. I’m so thankful I went all in on this course! Thank you Bryan and Tait, you’re doing a great thing here.”
Jeremy
Jeremy
Lee H.
“All this hard work with relating is paying off. We spent the whole trip in our love bubble and the bubble still hasn’t popped! Seems like this “leaning in ”...
Read More
Lee H.
“All this hard work with relating is paying off. We spent the whole trip in our love bubble and the bubble still hasn’t popped! Seems like this “leaning in” thing has finally caught on. I’m finding it easier to speak and act from my truth and not my ego. I’m looking forward to the next session with you men. It’s been great reading through the forum. Glad to see some wins while we learn to walk the path!”
Lee H.
Lee H.
Mark H.
"Had a great call with my partner. You are a genius! Thank you again."
Mark H.
"Had a great call with my partner. You are a genius! Thank you again."
Mark H.
Mark H.
Tecumseh
"I just completed Module 2 and I just have to say wow. I did the 10 questions and it tripped me out how you can turn things around by doing...
Read More
Tecumseh
"I just completed Module 2 and I just have to say wow. I did the 10 questions and it tripped me out how you can turn things around by doing that. I was able to figure out some things about myself that I didn’t realize before. A major relief finally knowing what is holding me back … and it’s me. I am now excited about what the future holds in my relations with everyone and showing my real self. As for the practices, I told my fiancé what I had figured out and I thanked her for her patience and sticking with me the past 5 years but now you are going to see the real me and the walls that I’ve kept up are going to start coming down. She is very happy that I shared that with her and feels that our relationship is going to grow better now instead of feeling stagnant. I can’t wait to see what happens next. Thank you!"
Tecumseh
Tecumseh

– LEE H

– PATRICK

– DANIEL

– NATHAN

– MICHAEL M

– JASON D.

“It gets me emotional to be honest. I almost regret my life before not knowing this stuff because how many years did I waste?Or should I be thankful that the information can’t be taken away from me.”

– AARON

“What we’re doing is so important. It really is because it’s not even just relationships, it’s personally. There’s so much value here as we grow, elevate as men, as a generation to raise a son and a daughter that has a father who’s trying shit different.”

– BRAD

“My wife found Bryan and Tait on the internet about two weeks ago, and our lives have changed almost 100 %. I still have a lot of work to do, but I’m now recognizing what i’m doing wrong, all my bad habits for the last 30, 40 years.”

– DAVE

“You know, this has become the language of hope, where there was hopelessness. I keep thinking I was in that emotion of feeling in despair and hopelessness in my relationship that I don’t have anymore. I came to realize you’re not fixing us. You’re making me so much better.

– JAMIE B.

“This is a safe space for us to get this out and then it’s just so normalizing to hear other men talk about what’s going on for them. And then the reflections back and forth. Just that normalizing effect is really powerful in a lot of ways.

– JASON

“I finished all the modules, and a couple things stood out to me is you guys, whether you’re married or single or separated,  this program does not guarantee that the significant other that you’re with will work out for the both of you, but it will guarantee that it will definitely work out for you as an individual relationship.”

– JOSIF

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I just wanted to share how much 'Elevate Your Relationship' has positively impacted my life. My family and I recently enjoyed our first vacation together, and it was an absolute blast. The changes and improvements I've experienced through the program have truly made a difference in our lives. I owe a huge amount of gratitude to you, the program, and the other men in the group.”

CLINT R

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Take action now and start your journey to a thriving relationship.

A NOTE FROM THE FOUNDERS, BRYAN & TAIT

TO THE MAN READING THIS …

We understand the challenges you face because we’ve been there ourselves.

We’re both married men in fulfilling and secure relationships with amazing women … but we learned the hard way by making all the mistakes in love a man can possibly make (seriously, all of them).

We are living proof that you can elevate your relationship – even if you’re in total breakdown and disconnection – if you’re simply willing to learn some new insights and gain some new skills. We’ve both done it.

If you’re truly ready to do the inner work it will take to create a thriving relationship, whether with your current partner or a future one, then we’d be honored to personally support you on that journey. 

Today, if you choose it, you can take significant action towards transforming your relationship.

Just book a Discovery Call (or sign up for our email series at bottom of page), and step into a community of inspired men committed to doing relationship better.

You don’t have to walk this path alone. You’re not even supposed to.

With respect & brotherhood,

Bryan Reeves & Tait Arend

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BRYAN REEVES

FOUNDER & COACH

A former USAF Captain, Bryan is an internationally renowned Author & Life/Relationship Coach. He's the author of two books, including Choose Her Every Day (Or Leave Her). His blog has been read by over 50 million people worldwide since 2013.

TAIT AREND

CO-FOUNDER & COACH

Tait co-hosts the acclaimed men's podcast, “Men, This Way,” with Bryan. As a leadership coach, consultant, and 12-step mentor, his work blends professional & personal experience. With over 17 years as a devoted husband, Tait provides unique insights and guidance for men seeking profound transformation in their lives and relationships.

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